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I got out of bed and stood on a chair half asleep (I don’t recommend this). Then I took the alarm from the ceiling only to find out that the batteries it needed, we did not have. So I left it on the counter to deal with it today and went back to bed.
This morning, our 3-year-old, Elijah, walked in the kitchen. The first thing he did was look straight up at the ceiling and ask, “Where is the smoke alarm?”
My mind is blown by the details he is paying attention to.
In fact, a few weeks ago, the same thing happened when I changed out my toothbrush from a blue one to a purple one. As we brushed our teeth alongside each other, he said to me, “Mommy, you got a new toothbrush! The blue one is gone, and now you have a purple one!”
He notices when I put on a shirt I haven’t worn in a while. The 1 day a year when I wear earrings, he calls it out. When I’ve been to the grocery store and the fruit basket has been refilled, he points it out proudly. He also notices when I try to hide the cookie canister that Grandma brought over so that I can eat the last one. (Oh, did I type that out loud?)
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This has me thinking hard about the details that I pay attention to. And how much of an impact can it have if we pay attention to the details within our daily interactions with others? With our kids, with people we work with or those we buy lunch from. The details of us.
My husband and I had a client once who gave us the most thoughtfully personalized gifts. One of these was a photo of our new son with his name and birth details printed on the frame. It was just after his birth. They paid attention to the details of US, and we’ll never forget their kindness.
If my preschooler can notice the little things, I certainly can, too. And if paying attention to those things can strengthen a relationship with a friend, with a spouse, with my kids … then it’s a little thing that can make a very big difference.
What’s the biggest lesson you’ve learned from your kids? (Share in the comments below!)